Alicia en el país de los maravillas

What a message! Go and determine your own destiny! "Why is everyone telling me who I am and who I'm not!?" Go decide for yourself and show 'em! What courage.

White Queen: Because when you step out to face that creature, you will step out on your own.

So true; I am facing that creature that is my future. You can't live for anyone else. You need to live with the decisions you make. At the end of the day, it's just you. I think Billy Joel said, "either way, you wake you with yourself.." Gotta make yourself happy. Define your own path, go in the direction of your goals. Live your life for YOU. And do so confidently

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler. -Henry David Thoreau

The Mad Hatter: [To Alice] You used to be much more "muchier." You've lost your muchness.